I will be solitary, very early 50’s and reside in a town that is small. I’ve been buddies with a guy whoever wedding happens to be unraveling for a few right time, along with his wife recently relocated out. Divorce procedures proceedings have started. Their spouse is questioning her sexuality that is own and she can be bisexual (that is her third failed wedding.) He is (was?) rumoured become having a sexual relationship with a mature hitched girl in the city. (seem like Peyton Put yet?) We never ask, but he denies the event, insists they are simply buddies & the rumour had been started by their wife’s brand new lesbian buddy, that is quite a gossip. At town functions, he sometimes hangs away using the older woman and her spouse and young ones like nothing is going on.
Our “friendship” has plainly changed and there’s a lot of flirting, texting, dropping by, investing more time together, and I have always been becoming interested we have a lot of laughs and get along well in him. He asked me personally to supper & we made a lame reason, he told me personally to make sure he understands whenever I am ready…something informs me i will be entering a hornet’s nest then one else informs me if we don’t do it, i shall lose my window of possibility & some other person will snatch him up and I also is likely to be kicking myself. How to handle it? many thanks. Anne
Many thanks for asking such an question that is important. But, without more info regarding your “friend,you a solid answer” it becomes next to impossible to give. You tell me he’s a player, but all i understand is that he’s been married for a long time and it is rumored to be having an affair. That’s not much to be on, also it’s definitely not my spot to tag him a player according to conjecture while the rumor mill that is small-town. Continue reading Do I need to Date A Player Even If I Know He’s Likely To Be Difficulty?